June 25, 2016

Houdini Rant #1

Have you ever been talking to a guy ... maybe even gone on a couple of dates... AND then he goes MIA?!  You are left like what just happened?!  You are thinking... everything was going fine or even worse, great.  We like to call this guy ... Houdini.  No, I am not going to try to justify the disappearing act behavior ... we all know that cliche "he's just not that into you."  We get it... when he does not text you first, text you back, answer your call, snapchat you, etc.  It doesn't make it any better just disappearing and not owning your behavior, but girl, it is the reality.  It happens way more than anyone wants to admit.

BUT, what I DO NOT understand is when Houdini decides before his brilliant departure he's going to make some grand gestures or plans.  Why are you doing it?  Please tell me, why you feel the need to act WAY more interested than you clearly are... then it is OVER... you are no where to be found to follow through!  How nice!  You, houdini and we are left with a bunch of question marks floating around in our head.  Thank you for that... as if this dating life isn't complicated enough ... 

My least fav type of guy ... because really ... we just want everyone to own their behavior!  

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